Every once in awhile, one comes across an unusual word which describes a normal occurrence in a way that may titillate one’s imagination.  Consider the word “canoodle,” which by definition means to “kiss and cuddle amorously.” (dictionary.com)  Etymologically, “canoodle” arises from an obscure origin, but entered the English language in the mid-nineteenth century (in Abraham Lincoln’s time), and is used mostly in a jocular manner to describe “playful public displays of affection by couples who are head over heels in love.”  (Merriam-Webster Dictionary.)  I wonder if Honest Abe knew the term.    

If you thought “canoodle” was an unusual word for a common practice, consider a related term:  “Cingulomania, pronounced” “sing-gyoo-loh-may-nee-uh” and defined as: “the strong desire to hold a person in your arms — or to be more precise:  a strong desire to “canoodle.” That person could be anyone, including a loved one or a stranger walking down the street.  The suffix, “mania” suggests a mental illness, but what could be wrong with embracing a loved one?  Nothing, but an uncontrollable desire to embrace a stranger in the mall may get you arrested.  

Alternate terms cannot hold a candle (or perhaps, candoodle) to “canoodle.  Lets look at a few defined in dictionary.com: 

Hug:  to clasp tightly in the arms, especially with affection. 

Snuggle:  to lie or press closely, as for comfort or affection

Cuddle: to hold close in an affectionate manner, hug tenderly

Fondle: to handle or touch lovingly, affectionately, or tenderly   

Nuzzle:  to lie very close to someone or something

Nestle:  to lie close and snug, like a bird in a nest

Embrace: to take or clasp in the arms

Enfold: to hug or clasp

Caress:  an act or gesture expressing affection, . . . especially a light stroking or touching

All the foregoing terms suggest holding or touching someone with affection, but “canoodle” stands above them, as it adds another dimension worth dreaming about.  After all, a hug is just a hug, but a canoodle can lead to something exciting.  

Warning:  Too much canoodle may lead to Cingulomania.